A Guide to Giving Back
Expert tips from dreamers who’re shaping the future of a generation
In Cape Girardeau, Missouri, you’ll find a group of school-aged boys that call themselves the Honorable Young Men Club. This group is focused on learning life skills, discovering a successful path forward and becoming impactful members of society. And that’s all thanks to four exceptional individuals — Cantrell Andrews, Kweku Arkorful, Wyky Jean and Aaron Adeoye (not featured in video).
This dream of making a difference started when these friends saw a need and decided to give back.
“My mom works in the school with a lot of at risk kids and she said ‘hey, a lot of these kids could use your mentorship,’” says Cantrell.
“Growing up, I lacked the example of how a real man was to truly carry himself,” adds Wyky. “My sister recognized how that could affect me, so she placed me in local programs such as Big Brothers and convinced my mother to allow me to play sports and be around other males and coaches who were outstanding leaders. I was able to take bits and pieces from my big brothers in the program and my coaches. They gave me tasks that helped me grow and see what I was truly capable of. All this lead me to realize that kids need role models because they need a point of reference. They need to see and hear what it is like to be an honorable man. Then they will know what’s expected of them.”
And so, the Honorable Young Men Club (HYMC) was formed. And it’s been just as rewarding for the founders as it’s been for the kids they’ve helped along the way.
“The most rewarding part is witnessing the development of some of these young men,” says Wyky. “The way this job has changed my life is by helping me discover my purpose. Now that I see this huge gap, I want to help fill it. I’m no longer living to make a dollar because I have a degree. But I’m living to make an impact and help empower young lives. This joy is like none other — it’s a very different feeling.”
It’s true, giving back is a gratifying feeling. And at the core of many dreams is the desire to make a difference. But it’s not always easy to jump in and make it happen. You may ask, ‘where do I even begin?’ Take it from the experts — Wyky has 3 tips to help get you started down the path to a more rewarding life.
Check your mindset. Make sure you’re going in with the right intentions. After all, the key to giving back is to do something for others, but it’s also about growing yourself and pushing your boundaries so you can be the best you can be for those in need.
“If you are truly interested in giving back, go all in,” encourages Wyky. “Be there to help and serve. Have an open mind and an open heart. Be ready to develop yourself as a person. Enjoy the experience, make sacrifices that are uncomfortable and be blessed by it.”
Harness the power of community. While you may be able to make a difference on your own, odds are working together with others will be many times more impactful. So think about enlisting others to join you and learn from each other along the way. That’s exactly what the founders of the HYMC did.
“No one man can take on the world alone,” states Wyky. “Someone in the community can help you limit mistakes and push you in the right direction. We all have strengths and weaknesses and together we are able to accomplish more and help more. Now you’re creating a village where everyone is taking care of one another. People support the world they helped create.”
Discover your opportunity today. Wyky’s advice is all great, but if you don’t take this last tip seriously, you won’t get far on your quest to make a difference: Don’t make excuses. It’s easy to say you don’t have the time right now or you just can’t decide on the right way to give back, but the hardest part is getting started, and we know you’ve got what it takes.
“If you are wanting to give back, get out there and really look for an opportunity!” encourages Wyky. “Don’t allow excuses to suffocate any opportunities you have to impact someone’s life. Make the sacrifice now.”
So, if you truly dream of giving back, there’s no better time than the present. And no better inspiration than what Wyky, Cantrell and Kweku have done! So take a page from there book — find a need and make the commitment to give back. You might be shocked at the ripple effect you can have on your community.
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